“Genius in the 21st century
will be attributed to people who are able to unplug
Do you resonate at all with the above quote, whether it’s an inner ‘yes’ or ‘no’?
Nourishing Restful Rhythms
“Genius in the 21st century
will be attributed to people who are able to unplug
Do you resonate at all with the above quote, whether it’s an inner ‘yes’ or ‘no’?
“Ralph Waldo Emerson once asked what we would do if the stars only came out once every thousand years.
In fact, my favorite sleep doctor and wisdom teacher, Rubin Naiman
believes that the best sleep medicine is night itself –
to nourish depth and quality of sleep,
we must re-establish a personal relationship with the night sky and with darkness.
Much like many of the modern foods available to eat,
we are overexposed and undernourished –
too much junk light, not enough natural or naturally timed light.
‘When we step intentionally into a dark space,
allowing our worldly eyes to rest and our inner eye to open,
our inner vision gradually acclimates
to the delicate glow that backlights the night,
revealing sacred mysteries in the shadows’ ~ Dr. Rubin Naiman
In other words, we all have the capacity for a kind of x-ray vision,
a way of seeing in the dark that is starving to be nurtured.
It’s like any muscle – to build it, we need to develop it.
What are some ways you might embrace the opportunity
to bring deeper ‘night-mindfulness’ into this winter season?
Besides unplugging altogether,
one tool you can download for free,
to mediate the harmful effects of blue light
coming from your computer and other digital devices,
is the wonderful application, F.lux
F.lux will adjust the light of your screen to mirror the natural light/dark cycles of the day.
So much better for your eyes (and body/mind/soul in general!) at night.
“No, I wont turn on the tv tonight. I might miss something important,
like the moon sneaking up from behind the mountain…
I know it’s a rerun, but it still catches my breath.” ~ Wendy Grant
How is your relationship with the night sky?
Thanks to light pollution and the prevalence of distracting entertainment options,
far fewer people are witnessing the ‘worlds largest national park’ nowadays – the majesty of the night sky.
As my favorite sleep wisdom teacher, Dr Rubin Naiman observes,
‘Although we see things more clearly by day, we see significantly more depth at night –
the very frame of our consciousness expands.’
Moon Phases and Sleep
All moon phases hold slightly unique energy, mystery, folklore, potential, and symbolism
depending on where they appear in monthly and yearly cycles.
Did you know that moon phases can influence the quality of our sleep?
Soaking up the sun is the norm…why not an eve of moongaze/bathing?
How is it impacting our dreams, and our ability to surrender into the deepest serenity of sleep?
Since napping and getting a full night’s sleep are often unavailable in the lives of many people these days, especially those working in stressful jobs, childbearing parents, active duty soldiers, healthcare workers and first responders, among others, alternative methods for achieving restorative rest, such as Yoga Nidra, are important practices that need to be readily available to the general public.
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Yoga Nidra is a way of accessing a new depth and quality of rest.
Yoga Nidra refers to an ancient meditation practice, as well as the state of conscious deep sleep it is said to produce.
People are often surrounded by such an accelerated pace in their daily lives and communities.
The invitation and excuse to just STOP – lie down and rest as a conscious meditative practice is revolutionary in our activity obsessed culture.
Yoga Nidra touches the doorway to a pure awareness, beyond all of the busy activities and agendas of the mind. During the practice, the body may fall asleep, as we slip through and beyond the waking and dreaming states, but there is a backdrop of awareness or consciousness that stays ‘awake’ to itself. Spending time in this conscious deep sleep state is thought to attenuate the strength of our habitual reactionary patterns, as they manifest in the bodymind. Often, these patterns or Samskara’s can restrict the free flow of energy in the bodymind system, contributing to the experience of suffering or stagnation spiritually, emotionally, mentally, energetically, and physically.
By stimulating the parasympathetic nervous system (PNS) and the deep relaxation response, Yoga Nidra offers a swift entry into all layers or facets of being. Our bodies intuitively know exactly what to do to attain and maintain perfect health and equilibrium, but we need the necessary conditions for this to occur. Yoga Nidra supports these conditions, uniquely unwinding – while also fine tuning – the nervous system.
The guided focus of the mind during Yoga Nidra can also reduce and in some cases even eliminate our habitual thought patterns. This is key for both relaxation and healing processes as habitual thought patterns are often unconscious and trigger our fight or flight response, the sympathetic nervous system (SNS), which creates stress.
Yoga Nidra also offers the practitioner the opportunity of welcoming and exploring complementary opposites for the purpose of practicing and pairing witnessing with deep relaxation. As longtime yogi and clinical psychologist Dr Richard Miller says, ‘with practice, you develop the ability to witness and be with every state of feeling and emotion without reactivity, while remaining relaxed and at ease’
What would it be like to be able to invite a state of consciousness that is both deeply relaxed and highly attuned and attentive – without having to move a muscle? Just by using the power of your own presence and consciousness? The idea is that with practice, eventually you will be able to guide yourself – and others – into Yoga Nidra – anywhere, anytime.
MINI SELF GUIDED YOGA NIDRA MEDITATION
This is a brief practice that can be helpful in working with the fluctuations of daily life – perhaps emotions and/or sensations, like pain, frustration, or stress. You can try guiding yourself through this 3 step practice anytime you like – whether you are alone in a quiet space with an opportunity to rest, immersed in a challenging activity or project, attending a yoga class, or running errands in a crowded marketplace! The more you practice, the more you will notice its unique potency saturating your daily life and experience of Yoga, whether on or off the mat.
Step One: Opening the Senses
In whatever position you find yourself in this moment, let your senses be wide open. Let your attention wander through your senses.
Mouth, tongue, and taste…
Ears, deeply relaxed…and receptive…sensitive to sounds in near and far distance
Nose, nostrils soft and receptive, neither flared nor pinched…sensing smell, fragrance in the air
Eyes, deeply relaxed and receptive, sense your vision expanding internally in every direction…eyes can be open or closed here, whichever you prefer
Skin, deeply relaxed and receptive, open to the touch of air temperature, textures and sensations…
Feel the palms of your hands, the spaces between your fingers…deeply relaxed and receptive, full with sensation and awareness…
Notice the natural movement of your breath, without interfering with it.
Step Two: Exploring the Opposite
As attention opens and expands… notice if there are particular thoughts, feelings or sensations that seem to dominate your current experience
Acknowledging what is going on as it is. What wants attention?
Notice the sensorial quality to this feeling – give up the concept of it and meet the pure sensation of it
Welcoming whatever is present – even if it’s nothing
Be with whatever arises – without grasping or pushing away…yet also welcoming grasping/or pushing – if they arise!
If an emotion is present, where do you feel it in your body? Are there images/stories present with this emotion?
Then, if it’s helpful, locate the opposite emotion…and where you experience this in your body, with attendant images, sensations, etc.
Move back and forth between opposites, sensing how each impacts the bodymind…the first…then the opposite at your own pace.
Step Three: Feel both Opposites Simultaneously
Feel and experience both simultaneously…don’t try to analyze this, let go of thinking and relax into the actual sensations
Feel both opposites at the same time…feel both opposites dissolving and coalescing into one another.
Feel yourself as the Awareness in which these feelings are coming and going…
Let go of the practice and rest your attention on the steady, easeful movement of your breath.
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